The Achievement of Missing Someone

  • Missing someone is a sign of emotional maturity.
  • It's an achievement to care for someone and endure their absence.
  • Growing up involves learning to manage the pain of missing someone.
  • We often engage in complex maneuvers to avoid the feeling of missing someone.
  • Children show us the raw emotion of missing someone.
  • As adults, we may lose our capacity to love if we become too allergic to the pain of missing someone.
  • We may reconfigure our perception of someone to lessen the pain of their absence.
  • Emotional maturity involves acknowledging the pain of missing someone without resorting to numbness, rage, or distraction.

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