People Not to Fall in Love With: A Checklist

  • Avoid people who don't realize their own difficulties.
  • Avoid people with a heightened belief in their infallibility.
  • Avoid people who label any criticism as rude or offensive.
  • Avoid people who deliberately frustrate you.
  • Avoid people who don't change their behavior despite promising to do so.
  • Avoid people who flirt with others and dismiss your concerns.
  • Avoid people who prioritize their friends over you.
  • Avoid people who constantly tell you you're imagining things.
  • Avoid people who harbor a grudge against your gender.
  • Avoid people who can't forgive anyone who thinks better of them than they think of themselves.
  • Avoid people who don't take your love as a substantial gift.
  • Avoid people who don't realize your time is precious.
  • Avoid people who are too in pain to want the best for you.
  • Avoid people who refuse to do the necessary work.

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